Dummies..

Okay you boys get mad over everything! Seriously I don't know if it's just my boyfriend or if it's all of you. But you get mad over every little thing. You get mad if a guy looks at us or texts us. You guys need to relax if we want to see other people we will so chill. Also you need to learn to control your tempers because all you do is make us not want to tell you things or talk to you about anything. So my advice to you little pea brains is to CHIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLL! =)

women+sex=power

First off I would like to point out that it is not true that men like sex more then women, or that they want it more. The only thing is that mens "crave" or want level if you will is alway at 8. While a womens want level fluctuates. In fact women are more "erotically charged" while they are in menstration. As gross as that may be Women want and need sex just as much as men do. Though I find it funny that women can use it against men. Say for example you want your guy to do something you tell them that if they dont you wont have sex with them and the next thing you know they are doing what you ask of them. I dont know if it's like that in every relationship but I know that in many couples the female in the relationship is the one that holds the power. Even if the guy likes to think its shared equally.

Wow..Can you say awkward?

Okay I still think that telling your parents that you are sexually active and wanting to get the right protection is 100% the right thing to do. That does NOT mean things wont get uncomfortable, I mean sure you and your mom will be able to talk about things more openly and you will form a greater bond but damn going to the Gynecologist is one thing that no teenage girl wants to experience it is AWKWARD! I mean not just for you, your mom is in the room with you. Yea sure she can leave but you may be so freaked out you want someone you know in the room with you. Then you have a COMPLETE stanger that you barely know how to pronounce their last name touching you in your "special" places. Now I mean its not the worst thing you can go through but its pretty damn uncomfortable well at least for most people. So my advice is that if you dont want to go to the big girl doctors and be responsible then ladies keep your legs closed if your not mature enough to do what is right.

Valentines Day

What do people think about Valentines day? In my opinion I think its sweet even when I didnt have a boyfriend. I mean now I do and the only part about it before that would bum me out was that it made me realize I didnt have anyone to share the experience with. But this is going to be my first Valentines day and im super excited! I mean some people think its pointless but I liked since it got introduced back in elementary school when we were all eachothers valentines. And when I was in middle school my dad would always come home from work with flowers for me and my mom. And now when we are in highschool we have our own. Some people LOVE it and those are more likely to be the people who have someone and the ones that say "Valentines Day is GAYY!" are the ones who hate it because they are alone.

I think its jsut as important as a anniversary or something for a relationship. You can remind eachother how much you care about eachother even if you are going through rough times. Now this holiday is a responsibilty for the "men" to take care of they need to take care of their special lady. Now I will be spending my Valentines Day with my wonderful boyfriend at my house and later on he is taking me to the presidents day fair. Which I think is romantic like one of those old movies.

I know this had nothing to do with sex but Valentines Day is the day for "love" so most couples are going to. So if your planning on it dont be dumb think smart use your brains or you will really not forget about this Valentines Day! Have a good one =)

Talking to your parents

It's hard for many teenage girls to confront your parents and tell them that your sexually active. You are scared they will get mad. And the truth is they will get upset but its always better to be honest because they can help. You should probably talk to your parent that is more open to things. For example your mom cause face it most dads don't want to know their little angle isn't so innocent. So you tell your mom but you should wait for the right moment to bring the subject like your watching movie and that kind of scene comes up. You can ask them questions like "when's the first time you had sex?" and other things to open up the questions or whatever you are curious about. And when they ask you be honest and if they over react just give them time to take it in. Cause remember it's not like your telling them you got your first boyfriend. I think it's important because then they can help you be safe by putting you on birth control and they can inform you on information that can happen that your not aware of or maybe tell you that what you think is true really isn't true. So don't be afraid to talk about it, plus telling them you are active will make the "mom, dad im pregnant" sentence be less shocking.